I found this information on this site. The site has a lot more things to read, if you are interested. It words the information well that I would like you to know. It's longer than usual but very helpful. This site uses the female form of pronouns, since the vast majority of people being abused are women, but it happens to men, too.
FOUR TYPES OF ABUSE
Abuse can take on many forms. Some types are more subtle
than others and might never be seen or felt by anyone other than
the woman experiencing the abuse. The abuser uses a combination
of tactics that work to control the victim. The abuse also usually
increases in frequency and severity over time.
PHYSICAL ABUSE
Physical abuse is easier to recognize and understand than
other types of abuse.
It can be indicated when the batterer:
◗ Scratches, bites, grabs or spits at a current or former intimate
partner.
◗ Shakes, shoves, pushes, restrains or throws her.
◗ Twists, slaps, punches, strangles or burns the victim.
◗ Throws objects at her.
◗ Subjects her to reckless driving.
◗ Locks her in or out of the house.
◗ Refuses to help when she’s sick, injured or pregnant,
or withholds medication or treatment.
◗ Withholds food as punishment.
◗ Abuses her at mealtime, which disrupts eating patterns
and can result in malnutrition.
◗ Abuses her at night, which disrupts sleeping patterns
and can result in sleep deprivation.
◗ Attacks her with weapons or kills her.
SEXUAL VIOLENCE AND ABUSE
Sexual violence and abuse can be extraordinarily difficult for
victims to talk about because of the ways in which this type of
violence often is perpetrated.
Sexual violence or abuse can be indicated when the batterer:
◗ Is jealously angry and assumes she will have sex with anyone.
◗ Withholds sex and affection as punishment.
◗ Calls her sexual names.
◗ Pressures her to have sex when she doesn’t want to.
◗ Insists that his partner dress in a more sexual way than she wants.
◗ Coerces sex by manipulation or threats.
◗ Physically forces sex or is sexually violent.
◗ Coerces her into sexual acts that she is uncomfortable with,
such as sex with a third party, physically painful sex, sexual
activity she finds offensive or verbal degradation during sex.
◗ Inflicts injuries that are sex-specific.
◗ Denies the victim contraception or protection against
sexually transmitted diseases.
PSYCHOLOGICAL ABUSE
It is the abuser’s use of physical and sexual force or threats
that gives power to his psychologically abusive acts. Psychological
abuse becomes an effective weapon in controlling a
victim, because she knows through experience that her abuser
will at times back up the threats or taunts with physical assaults.
Psychological abuse can be indicated when the batterer:
◗ Breaks promises, doesn’t follow through on agreements
or doesn’t take a fair share of responsibility.
◗ Verbally attacks and humiliates his partner in private or public.
◗ Attacks her vulnerabilities, such as her language abilities,
educational level, skills as a parent, religious and cultural
beliefs or physical appearance.
◗ Plays mind games, such as when he denies requests he has
made previously or when he undercuts her sense of reality.
◗ Forces her to do degrading things.
◗ Ignores her feelings.
◗ Withholds approval or affection as punishment.
◗ Regularly threatens to leave or tells his partner to leave.
◗ Harasses her about affairs he imagines her to be having.
◗ Stalks her.
◗ Always claims to be right.
◗ Is unfaithful after committing to monogamy.
ECONOMIC ABUSE
Economic abuse can be indicated when the batterer:
◗ Controls all the money.
◗ Doesn’t let her work outside the home or sabotages her
attempts to work or go to school.
◗ Refuses to work and makes her support the family.
◗ Ruins her credit rating.
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